Transvestia

viously frustrated desire brings a great measure of con- tentment and relaxation to him and to the home general- ly. TVs on their part need to appreciate that their wives may have to make very big adjustments in setting aside their preconceived ideal of masculine companion- ship. It is not easy for some of us to change over to the ready acceptance of a "girl" about the place instead.

Taking all things into consideration, I feel strongly that it is only kind and fair for a TV to tell the girl of his choice about himself before marriage, and to tell fully what his desire means to him and what it will con- tinue to mean through the years ahead. The telling may mean that some TVs remain unmarried, but through help- ful publications like TRANSVESTIA they will at least be enabled to enjoy companionship with each other. ually their feminity may be considered less abnormal until eventually accepted by society generally.

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To those who learn of their husbands' desire after marriage, I would say that it is possible to work out a continuing happiness and companionship based on sym- pathetic understanding and loving consideration on both sides.

ful,

Hoping the above thoughts and comments may be use-

Yours Sincerely,

Agnes (Mrs. FE-M-1)

Editors Note: The above letter was received from one of our English wives and is appreciated. The following two are written by two very helpful wives to another wife who had appealed to me for some help in understanding her husbands inclinations. I referr- ed the request to Nicco and Shirley feeling that one wife could help another better than I could. The letters are reprinted here because I feel that they might prove helpful to some other wives in their struggle to understand.

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